Visiting hours are Thursday 7 to 8:45 PM, Saturday 7 to 8:45 PM and Sunday 2 to 4 PM.
The place looks like a ghost town then - plenty of nurses & techs, plus the receptionist, but hardly any visitors, and I don’t see another soul.
I’ll have to find out if anyone will be there, but that’s really good advice. When I call and ask, everyone acts like it has to be the social worker who takes care of it. I’ve called every working day since he’s been in, I left a letter on Sunday, I have the social worker’s supervisor’s name, but am waiting a little longer for a response before I go up the chain.
I thought about having my own form drafted - like an advance directive kind of thing - but they won’t allow you to take anything in with you other than your car keys.
I’m going to start looking for an appropriate attorney - just in case.
I don’t want him to come home before he’s ready, but I’d like to know what the plan is at this time. And, I worry that because he may choose to not be overly communicative with the doctor that they may keep him longer than necessary. He’s never been very social, never talked to teachers much when he was a kid, and they don’t know his baseline. If they’re going to wait for him to be cheerful and chatty, they might have to wait forever.
On the other hand, he sounds really good - very lucid. He’s always responded to medication of all types quickly, and they put him back on what he was already taking with the exception of the suboxone, so we know it works for him.
He also mentioned someone asked if they could be roommates, so he’s getting along well with someone. He also said he doesn’t know if that’s allowed, so he didn’t sound like he’d pursue it, but nice that he’s talking to the other patients some, even if they are getting him a little worked up about the legalities of the place.