I do find… I get a bit paranoid about stuff… for me it’s kidnappers. I try not to, but I sometimes do monitor over the shoulder of my 18 year old kid sis… hoping she’s not talking to kidnappers on-line. I want to protect her… I want to keep her safe.
Other times… it has nothing to do with my Sz… I want to know what interests her… I spend so much time in my own head… in my own life… I sometimes look at what she’s doing for a change of view. In fact… that’s how I found this site.
She was on this forum before I was… getting some new ideas. I started reading this site and really liked it. So it could just be your loved one is trying to connect and be interested in something new.
Maybe he’s not into harry potter but something about the site interest him… or maybe he’s hoping to connect to something beyond his own head.
I’m sorry it’s frustrating… but at least he’s showing some interest… when I’m in a flattened negative symptom swing… the apathy levels and motivation levels tank and then nothing interest’s me at all… there could be an earth quake and I’d be too flattened to react. (negative symptoms)