I need to know how to deal with my pain

My husband told me last nightbhe showed and allowed another mental.patient to grab his penis and she showed him her boobs. He just thought he needed to be honest. What in the world. He still very difficult is this normal?? I don’t wanna be cheated

That is not normal. My father is a serial cheater, for years he had cheated on my mom 12 times that she knows of. Not counting his one mistress. His doctor blamed it on hyper-sexuality caused by his schizoaffective disorder. The doctor claimed my dad had no idea what he was doing, which to me is a load of bullshit. My dad had two children out of wedlock. One older than me and one about 16 years younger than me.