We are home and enjoying a respite from the car alarm and yelling. If its the moon issue, it will be even worse in early January - not looking forward to that at all.
BUT, during this respite we are in “negotiations” regarding meds, plans he would like to make, and how he would like us to help him. Its a tricky business as he will be communicating clearly for a couple of sentences, then, text a sentence of accusations. I am ignoring those in my replies trying to keep him focused on the conversation. Texting does give me the chance to focus on better replies. This would be really tricky in a live conversation.