I am relatively new here and I have a concern id like some feedback with.
I will also be discussing with a professional medical team and correct services.
My friend has moved back to her hometown to be closer to her parents as her she was struggling to cope with her sz and when she broke up with her bf of 7 years she had no one where she was.
Her family bought a small house for her to live in, that she pays rent on.
Since she’s moved in she has complained of ‘tapping’ in her roof. Tapping sounds NOT coinciding with weather expansion etc, tapping does not occur when weather changes dawn, dusk etc. She has been told it the water pipes that in the roof and walls, rather than under the house.
My friend is distressed by this tapping and thinks / feels it’s someone who doesn’t like her or is hostile trying to upset and distress her, control her thoughts and feelings.
She has been told she can pay for the water pipes to be changed from the roof to under house, which she doesn’t want to do. Now has been told its the water pipes banging together.
She says tapping does not sound like this.
It happens as soon as she opens her eyes and she feels it’s violent. The tapping is sometimes faint sometimes loud tap. She can’t pinpoint it’s sore as the tapping is so irregular. Sometimes at 1pm sometimes at 3:15am.
It is stressing her out and thus exacerbating her sz symptoms.
Feeling that her family betrayed her and is tapping on her roof to harass her.
She really needs rest after what she’s been through and has told me she doesn’t feel safe in the area she is living.
She was hoping moving back to her hometown she would be able to rest and gain peace to manage her condition better.
Now she is considering moving interstate again.
Can families do this to their unwell family members. Is it betrayal, is it just something logical or does my friend have to move away from these people?