That is frustrating. One reason I limited my son's access to money thru a Paypal prepaid mastercard (I would just put so much per month on it for him) is because if he bought something ridiculous or something that he shouldn't, Paypal will refund the money no questions asked. It is a wonderful feature. Since my son still needs daily redirection, when he gets money on his card it works better if I say, you have the $10 for that gift you wanted to buy, or hey don't forget you have $20 for that shirt you wanted, etc...etc...he tends to use it for the things I remind him of. It wasn't always like that though, it has evolved. I am lucky in one way that my son has no interest in using the computer. He use to, but not anymore. I just leave well enough alone. I hope it all works out for you.