Yes, in fact you’re right. When I wrote that I did fear that she might be angry with me and try to cause trouble between us.
What happened was that between posts I saw him and told him to his face what I had told the nurse and why. And I told him that I preferred him to be in a hospital than a prison. And he agreed, and even he had already told the psychologist himself the worst thing he had done.
So, when I wrote the second post I had already forgotten my fear! 
It has been a terrible couple of weeks. My feelings are swinging round like the sails on a windmill.
Sz seems to be all about fear, for the patient and for those who love them. It is so gruelling sometimes.
You have excellent insight into the illness. I wish you continued success on your journey.