My 41 yo son has made threats towards my 27 yo daughter who has done nothing to him. He has some delusions about her and now she is afraid of him. My son lives with me and I would like him to live separately since I can’t have her come to see me.
When I retire I wanted to live closer to my daughter but she doesn’t want my son to move to the same city. Currently I am about 2 -1/2 hours away from my daughter.
It creates a problem because I would have to have him live fairly far away and I think he needs some med surveillance.
Plus there is the added expense of maintaining 2 homes.
But I do want to live separately from my son as he is a messy guy and it is a pia to deal with.
I feel like he has become more dependent since living w me and isn’t working. He has applied for SS but it is in process and there is a lawyer involved.
Anyone done a special needs trust ?
Thanks for your thoughts