Don’t feel too depressed. Some of us go on to lead full lives. I have schizoaffective disorder bipolar type. I also have 6 children, an 18 year marriage, and a writing career with one published novel and two kids picture books.
It isn’t easy but nothing worth having often is.
Early intervention and getting on a good med routine is essential to a good life. You’re doing things right. She is doing it right by reaching out. You are definitley on the right path.