We may have gotten thru this okay. My son skipped his meds Thursday night. I spent some time researching withdrawal from clozapine, and see that sudden withdrawal can be pretty difficult. I let my son know that I was quite worried about him suffering with the withdrawal, and:
I told him that I would not confront him about this decision, but that if he decompensates, I would make sure he got admitted to the hospital;
I told him about what I had learned about withdrawal, and that I was very worried about him. I said, if it was his decision to stop his meds, he at least needed to do it the correct way, by tapering off VERY slowly.
I could see on Friday that he was not feeling great. I didn’t discuss it with him at all, but just did my normal stuff. I went back on Saturday, and it looked like he had taking his meds. We went out and did normal things.
I swung by his house this morning (to drop off eclipse glasses, tho he hadn’t expressed interest, and also, it is storming here, so they are probably not necessary) and it looks like he took Saturday and Sunday meds too. Either that, or he is tossing them.
I have decided to just do what I said - not confront him, but only make sure he gets hospitalized if it becomes necessary