Hi, so I guess the title explains some of it but okay this is me basically asking for advice.
I am 17, he is 21. I have known him for two days but I seriously love him and he loves me.
Both of us suffer from mental health conditions. He has schizophrenia, BPD, and Asperger’s syndrome.
I suffer from depression and anxiety that prevents me from leaving my home. My therapist thinks I need to be tested for Asperger’s syndrome. I recently recovered from anorexia and I fear I may be on the cusp of a relapse. I also fear that I may also have BPD but my anxiety is probably just making me over think…
Anyway I sincerely love him and already the thought of being without him kind of crushes me but I am afraid that I am not well enough myself to be with him and fear we could negatively impact eachother’s mental health. I love him and want to be with him but I am afraid it would be harmful for him if I was his partner because I am not functioning myself.
Can anyone give me some advice or even just their opinions?