My son will be returning home in the next few days after being hospitalized for 5 weeks. After talking with the doctor, it was like having the wind knocked out of me. He said "your son has a serious illness. He will never be able to function on his own. "
I always tried to maintain hope since my son worked 4 years before his sz symptoms made their appearance. However, he seems to be getting worse than any better at all. The doctor suggested that I get guardianship. Its seems like I am taking the last thing that my son has left. His ability to be his own person.
Should I get guardianship over him? He is going to hate me. However, this will allow me to make medical decisions on his behalf since I don’t think he is capable of doing that now. What are the pros and cons of getting guardianship? Has anyone done this yet to their loved one? Do they forgive you once they are finally stable enough?
Sharing your experiences with me would be very helpful.