You are in a very tough position and I’m sorry to say this story is very unlikely to end happily. Your best bet is therapy for yourself. Moving on from a loved one in his situation is a lot like grieving a death
Yes it is. Thank you
Thank you for your kindness.
In your situation please take a look at the closed doors. There may be reasons for the closed communication that you don’t understand now or ever. This is not your battle to fight. Look within, take care of yourself, there’s a big beautiful world out there to enjoy. We can’t control what other people do, say or behave. We can only control our responses. Therapy may be a good place for you to take care of yourself. Other people’s problems are not ours to fix.
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I know this is true, I don’t like it but I know it. I think that being involved in this situation is traumatic. I started going to church not quite a year ago and I do believe that has helped me in many ways and one is I can honestly look at the whole thing and see that unfortunately it wasn’t meant to be when before just the thought of that was devastating to me. I have thought about talking to someone but I have never really like the idea of having to tell a stranger my whole life story so we’ll see. But thank you for being honest I appreciate that!
So yesterday I got a text and I’m so.happy to say that my friend has checked himself into a year long program. He goes this morning! I’m so proud of him and I am so thankful that he’s doing this for himself!! It’s a good day!!
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That’s great to hear! Hope is always alive!
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Thank you! I am so thankful and happy for him!!