I hope you don’t mind me jumping in on this one. I am so glad to hear of how well your son is doing. Our collective prognosis is getting better and better I feel.
My boss does know of my Sz and as long as I try to be patient and keep him in the loop and do my best when I’m well, he tries to give me flexible work week and structure I need. There are a lot of people on this thread who are employed long term. Employers are getting more open. I have every faith that your son will be able to profit from his highly demanded skills.
Congratulations to both of you for all that hard work and strength and ability to support each other.