Stalking issues

This forum has been helpful for a number of things, and I have one question that some may know an answer from experience. Like many on one side of my family, my older sister shows strong schizotypal-like symptoms (voices, beliefs that people want to get her because she is so special, dabbling in curses on people, putting on a lizard-man act, etc). Her husband also brags about being diagnosed by doctors as a sociopath. Growing up, my older sister used to say I needed to be “equalized” because I was healthy, that I was Cinderella, the ugly duckling, and that she was Cain and I Abel (she used to say she would murder me if she could get away with it). She was and is totally fixated on me and wants revenge because I don’t have what she has.

Recently, it came to my attention that she has been calling my employers. She can be effective verbally until she starts talking in her lizard-man voice about weird things. I have moved to the other side of the country to get away from her and her family, but that doesn’t stop her from calling employers in the field that I work in, where I live. She doesn’t have a job, so she has a lot of time.

I took down my social media accounts. Is there anything else I can do? Is it possible to remove my address from the internet?

Hi @Otter . I don’t know that it is possible to remove your address from the internet. There are so many programs to find people… Perhaps you can tell the place you work at what is going on with stalking from your sister so they aren’t shocked if she calls and will alert you if it happens. One woman at my work who was being stalked by an exboyfriend successfully got help from the office manager and the Sheriffs office to stop him. Good luck.