My wife had a breakdown 3 years ago. She then started becoming increasingly jealous of me, and accusing me of sexually assaulting her in her sleep. She called SVU on me. I let her lock me in the bedroom for about 9 months so she would feel safe (she had started to live in the living room of our apartment months earlier).
She accused me of having thousands of cameras recording her throughout our apartment. She started covering every pinhole in the wall with tin foil.
One morning, she was sitting on the couch talking in 3 different voices / personalities. I called 911 and she went into the hospital for observation. They put her on Abilify and she came home a few weeks later.
A few months passed, and we had a small argument. She then told me that I disgusted her and she hated everything about me, and that she wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. I discussed divorce with a few lawyers, but they told me that it would be really hard and expensive (we don’t have any assets and no savings), and she didn’t want to talk about it…
Fast forward to now: She doesn’t seem to be taking any medication anymore, and she whispers to herself all the time. She sleeps all day and hardly moves around the house…
When she whispers to herself, it seems like other personalities are tormenting her. I thanked her for doing the dishes and I heard her whisper, “Say OK! don’t pull any of this shit!” She then said, “OK.”
It seems like she is trapped by these other personalities and laying in her bed all the time out of exhaustion. What can I do to try and help her? She won’t talk to me. Last week, I heard one of the voices whisper that my son and I were going to die in the car. I called 911 and she spent the night in the Psych ward, then came home the next day. Nothing seems to have changed. I thought that maybe they would give her meds and that would help her, but nothing happened.
is there anything I can do to help her, to help her come out of this state, where she lays in bed all day and other personalities whisper nastily at her? I don’t know what to do. ANY advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks.