I am the exact same way with my 17 year old sister. She’s not Sz at all, but she probably should be…
I put her through hell and heart break. I’ve really added huge levels of surreal chaos to her life. She will talk about some really out there stuff, but then It’s all stuff I’ve poured into her head when she was little. I hate that. I also hate to say that I am sort of on guard for that first sign of cracking. But she is such a pro with keeping calm, I’m not sure I would ever see it until it got out of control. Just like the anorexia.