I am happy for you to get that ray of sunshine into your life! It certainly feels good when we see a spark of interest doesn’t it? I do believe this. My oldest has sz. He is very compassionate and caring. He’s been through hell and back and values family and good times all the more for it. My father was suffering from dementia and could not walk any longer. He suffered towards the end and my mother could not care for him at home. My oldest son went with me to visit the most, was the most empathetic to the hospital experience - wanting to leave and not being able to, etc…He has made me a better person for seeing his trials and how he has dealt with them. Take care and so happy for the wonderful young men our sons are.