This is a good short paper on how to respond helpfully to people’s strange or unusual beliefs that they may tell you about. This is developed for mental health professionals, but is valuable for family members and anyone who deals with people who may have psychosis:
For me it was nice to have some changes to the usual LEAP approach. I do some positive reality testing in our texts these days. Just simple stuff that doesn’t challenge what he is saying.
Could anyone help me with using these techniques when my husband is angry with me because “the writing on the walls and they tell him I am lying and cheating”?
Assuming it is true, you can ask if he ever had any reason to doubt your love for him and remind him of the ways that you show love to him. The writing must be meant for someone else because it is certainly not about you.