I knew this guy, he is kind heart, loving and talkative. We get clicked to each other easily and after together , he told me that he has schizophrenia.
At first, he was so sweet and will text me everyday . Even when he is busy work, he also eager texting with me…after we tgt, he slowly changed. He suddenly quit his job just because he dislike it. And he is jobless now. He start to addicted in playing mobile games and ignore me…
We often argue about these small matters . The way he doing things cannot make me feel secure . I realized he always promise me something sweet when he is in good mood but after a few second or next day, he will deny it. Does anyone with schizophrenia also act like this?? How to make them keep their promises?
He always late sleep, emotion unstable. When I tell him nicely about his problem ( on his bad habit) , he never change. So I slowly act like a mom and nagging him. I realized he easily impatient and will throw temper on me.
He just cracked my car windscreen and his own phone last time when we argue. He even throw my stuffs and break it … and he will kick my ass or abit rude to me like slap my thigh… I really don’t like this. Although he is not really hit me, I still hate men treat women in this way. I would still call it abusing …
Sometime argue , he said he feel want to hit me but he didn’t really do it. So I worry he will abuse me one day …
After a while when he calm down, he will come and say sorry and that he love me…
It make me exhausted… and I confusing whether his behavior and hurtful words are because of his own personality or influence by schizophrenia??
i feel mentally tiring and we keep argue over small things. I feel he is immature and not independence enough. He Is jobless and Doing nothing at home now. thats why we always argue.
I love him. But I really feel tiring when he cannot treat me properly or normally as a responsible BF… like I want him to text me often , having good life habits , give me attention, communicate with me , not shouting or violence … I think it is a super normal requirement as a normal girl.
Because he cannot do it, and his schizo might appear when we argue. So I got no idea how to change him…