I’m not sure I quite have the hang of replying to posts here! I will learn. First, thank you to all that replied. He has agoraphobia and sociophobia so leaving the house is stressful. Being around people is stressful. So he won’t go to the DMV. He also refuses to allow his picture to be taken. This isn’t a matter of him being a spoiled brat. It’s a matter of documented phobias so we have to respect them and somehow work around them.
He didn’t attend high school so no yearbook picture. His last picture was taken for an ID in junior high but he found it and hid it or destroyed it.
He’s on Medicaid so his bills are paid so the “who will pay” thing isn’t an issue. Getting in to see a psychiatrist to prescribe the correct meds and monitor them is our main issue. I will make note the question about why is an ID required. Maybe if we talk to his Medicaid worker she can okay it somehow at her end without an ID.
He takes the Seroquil to sleep. The primary care giver didn’t prescribe it for his Schizophrenia. I worry he doesn’t know what he’s doing. Even he (the dr) doesn’t want to be responsible for his special meds, just general medications for simple things. We have requested he find a psychiatrist who will take him since the primary care doctor can vouch for the young man’s identity. Naturally, we have to wait forever to hear back from him.
Thank you all for your help. I will check out all suggestions.