The messy adult thing is a real pia. I pay someone twice or three times a month to resurrect the house again.
I don’t quite get why my son can’t close cupboards or do basic loading of dishwasher on occasion without a discussion. He feels like I am trying to control him and this is a change from previous younger years It’s like his brain is just not as good as ten years ago. He is my oldest and is 40 y.o.
It seems like my stress level is higher and sometime I am unaware of that because I have adapted in an unhealthy way. My spirit is not as motivated. And on my time off I don’t do healthy things like exercise.
I know I should as I am 68 y.o. And wonder how this life of mine will be shortened because of it all
Intellectually I can see the dilemma and understand what. Would be healthier coping on my part but don’t do it.
Meanwhile we disagree on food choices because he wants higher calorie foods that normally I wouldn’t pay for.
But he has some weight issues and it all makes for increased stress.
As I write I think to myself you better carve out a healthier coping plan because this is not too smart.
We all fall down and then get up.
God bless all going though these trials and thank you for sharing.