My boyfriend has been having such a bad week, I thought for sure we’d have to take him back to the hospital. It hasn’t gotten that far yet, and he has started to come down a little. But I had to take a few days and leave our home together, because every night (he hasn’t been sleeping) he wakes me up multiple times telling me we have to leave, let’s leave. And of course me being tired and woken up, I start to get defensive. And during the day it’s the same thing. Let’s get out of the house for awhile. And I don’t want to leave the house, but I end up going, and it’s always the same thing. We go to his parents (I wait in the car) so he can do lord knows what in there for 15 - 20 minutes. Then we just drive around until again, I get angry.
Should I condone this behavior and go with him? Or put my foot down and say I’m not going because I feel safe in the house we have and I feel no reason to leave?! It’s such a catch 22 because if I don’t go it gets him upset with me, and if I do go I just watch him get more frustrated and we’re wasting gas driving around while the roads are horrible … it is winter.