I’m not that young I’m 50.
You sounded young.
Yes I know, its a lot of drama for a 50 year old I’ve never had this much drama in my life until David.
I still say, take care of you. You can’t change him. or force him to see a doc unless he is a danger to himself or others. Let him run until he stops and hopefully realizes he needs help.
Take care of you while you wait. If you wait for him. You crashing only harm you.
Comatose ty for your advice I’m going to take care of myself now.
My bf has broken up with me by email because he said I betrayed him by telling his sister where he is but I haven’t talked to her.
But I did talk to his other sister and sent her some of his emails. She says he’s has to be off his meds and becoming more paranoid.
So now I get me some help too deal with all the damage he has done too my heart and head.
I’ll always love him and miss the man I fell in love with.
My ex boyfriend called me in the middle of the night very drunk, cussing and screaming at me and calling me a liar. I know all of this is because of the sz but does anybody know how long this episode will last without his getting help and drinking and being off meds.
This is really scaring me I’ve never seen him this bad I’m afraid he will try and kill himself. Help please.
As long as he is not receiving some type of treatment and abusing substances then this episode will continue. Have you looked into crisis outreach teams in your area? They can reach out to your BF to do an assessment if you feel that he is in danger of hurting himself.
Ty Barbie,
But he is not here he fled to Canada. As he is under conservatorship here in ca. He wouldn’t except my help right now anyway as he turned on me out of nowhere thinking I told his conservator sister where he is which I didn’t, idk where is in Canada. All I know is I’m tired of living in terror and tears.
Sz is the crappiest illness too have. And the crappiest one for the loved ones too deal with.
Would that it were that easy. It takes time to untwist one’s thinking and that assumes the affected person has the insight necessary to recognize twisted thinking. Being told to just, “deal with it” shows a lack of understanding and empathy. No one willingly chooses to have a head full of broken glass, believe me.
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Pixel,
I agree with you. David can’t just deal with it how can he, he doesn’t think he even has a problem.
A head full of broken glass is the best way to put it with every head movement the glass just keeps cutting up his brain, the alcohol don’t help either.
Just get a new one.
What do you mean, if you mean a new man its not that easy I love this man and he was also my best friend. Its not easy to turn my back on him, even if he has.
I’m sorry
In my experience (obviously flawed) chicks just move on when something isn’t to their liking.
Well that’s ok . You didn’t know I’m 50 not a kid. But for the most part your right girls do but I’m a woman.
50? Huh?.. Good for you.
Ty neveragain, I hope that’s true.
I’m so lost I don’t know what to do my boyfriend has completely unraveled. He’s in Canada and I don’t know where so I can’t help him. He thinks I’m the enemy now making all kinds of crazy accusations that are all in his head his family is no help at all I think all of them are off how else could his sister go on vacation after I tell her about her brother. He has three older sisters and they all have one thing in common their all so cold.
Perhaps this could be an opportunity for you to put some energy into yourself. This doesn’t mean that you love your BF any less. It doesn’t sound like there is anything that you can do at the moment. Some times we need to let go of things we can’t change.
I agree barbie, it’s just so hard but I can’t live like this anymore. I deserve better I’ll always be here for him if he ever needs me but for now I need to fix me and the damage done. Ty barbie.