How to deal with hurtful hateful words

Sorry about that, I was thinking afterwards I should not have been telling you what to do anyway but I was very worried for you. I am sorry the pain you are going through, words can hurt so much. I am glad he is not threatening you. But hearing him say this to you is probably heart breaking for you. I hope he gets some help.

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Thank you for your kind words and I understand your concern also, no one wants anyone to get hurt and if we can maybe prevent anything like that of course we would try. It is heartbreaking most of the time he is good but I can talk to him about my feelings at all because he gets angry and says I’m making problems. I’m just taking each day as it comes mostly good like I said until I say something he don’t like. He smokes sometimes and I think that’s what causes it mainly with him. I can’t tell him not to smoke as that’s a problem too… he also tries to say it’s good for him and takes his stress away but that’s only because he knows I don’t like him smoking. Thank you again for responding it’s nice to have someone to talk to who understands.