I was dating a guy for a few weeks in february and march, I broke it off, because I realized that he had some kind of psychotic breakdown. He is diagnosed schizophrenia
After knowing each other for a few days he told me that he loved me, asked me to marry him, were looking for wedding rings and so on. When I was scared and tried to break things off, he threatened to commit suicide. For 6 weeks I stayed because I was very concerned that he would take his own life because of me. I felt paralyzed and also guilty. But it was impossible to have a normal relationship.
He started talking about spirituality, claiming that he was foretold by a clairvoyant, that he would meet me and that he believed that we had been destinied for each other for 22 years.
He couldn’t understand that we had only known each other briefly. He kept saying that I was his soulmate and love of his life (that he should have never married his ex wife and had a son, but should instead have waited his whole life for me). He constantly swore, that he would kill himself and that he could not live without me.
After 6 weeks and endless afford to make him see a psychiastrist, I left him.
But he would not accept that. In the beginning he Called and texted me all the time, so I blocked his Phone and Facebook account (but from an email that he sent me, before I blocked his email too, i know that he made fake profiles to check my Facebook)
Now 9 months later, he keeps writing me poetry on a public community site. Sometimes he mentions my name, the colour of my hair, and my eyes. Sometimes it is love poems (about us getting married, that Im supposed to have his child - he even has a name for our imaginary child) but other times it is hateful poetry where he write things like “See you in hell” , making references to our private life, when were together and claims that I’m insane because I don’t understand, that we belong together., Actually he writes, that I’m psychotic, and that is why, I don’t realize that I love him.
The angry poems started to occur, when he realized from my Facebook, that I have a new boyfriend.
I feel so angry, and also embarassed when people congratulate him on our marriage or tell him, that they hope that I might recover from the psychosis, so that we could get back together.
Sorry for the long post, but is there anything I can do? When it is only online stalking?
He doesn’t show up to my house. And he has never threatened to Hurt me (it is always about committing suicide)
Is there anything I could do?
I’m scared, because I realized that he was stalking another ex Girlfriend for 7 years, when he was in his 20s, now he is 45.
Would it make sense to get a lawyer’s take on this?
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