Mother had schizphrenia for 30 years and now I have started to show symptoms

Hello my mother is a schizphrenic and has been on meds on and off for 30 years.

I am turning 30 and I am starting to show symptoms. I don’t feel like doing anything job and I have a family business which I am not able to manage with my brother. I keep making mistakes there due to this illnesss. I keep forgetting stuff like bills, orders of customers etc

I am on rexulti 1mg but I don’t see any improvement

Can somebody suggest me how to cure this problem? Will yoga classes help? And how to fix my memory?

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As you must well know, schizophrenia is a serious mental illness, one of the most disabling mental illnesses there are and there’s no known cure. Are those your only symptoms? Forgetting things isn’t necessarily a sign of schizophrenia, for example I lost a lot of my ability to remember things after a particularly stressful move. Schizophrenia can cause memory problems but here are some other causes. This is from ChatGPT:

I’m 30

At 30 years old, increasingly poor memory is less likely to be caused by dementia than it would be in someone much older. More common causes include:

  • Lack of sleep or poor-quality sleep

  • Stress or anxiety

  • Depression

  • Being overloaded with information or multitasking constantly

  • Certain medications (including some sleep aids, allergy medications, and anti-anxiety medications)

  • Alcohol or recreational drug use

  • Vitamin deficiencies (especially B12)

  • Thyroid problems

If you’re forgetting things like recent customer orders, ask yourself:

  • Has this been getting worse over weeks or months?

  • Are you sleeping 7–9 hours regularly?

  • Are you under unusual stress?

  • Are you also forgetting conversations, appointments, or things people just told you?

You should consider seeing a healthcare professional if:

  • The memory problems are clearly worsening.

  • They interfere with work or daily life.

  • Other symptoms are present, such as confusion, personality changes, trouble finding words, headaches, weakness, or balance problems.

How long has the memory problem been getting worse—weeks, months, or years? And are you forgetting other recent information besides customer orders?

Once you’re on medication it can take awhile for you to feel any improvement. How long have you been taking it? I researched rexulti a little bit and it says within a couple of days you may feel calmer and sleep better but for symptoms like hallucinations, delusions and disorganized thinking you may not see results for 4-6 weeks. Yoga may not get rid of your problems but regular exercise is good for your mental health. What other symptoms are you experiencing and how long have you been experiencing them? Are you really sure that you are becoming schizophrenic?

how to improve memory

If you have schizophrenia and are noticing memory problems, these approaches can help:

1. Get Consistent Sleep

Sleep is one of the biggest factors affecting memory. Aim for 7–9 hours per night and try to keep a regular sleep schedule.

2. Take Medications as Prescribed

Since you mentioned recently starting Rexulti, give it time to work. Improvement in thinking and concentration can take several weeks. If you think a medication is making your memory worse, discuss it with your prescriber rather than stopping it on your own.

3. Exercise

Regular walking or other exercise can improve attention, thinking speed, and memory. Even 20–30 minutes most days can help.

4. Use Memory Aids

  • Write things down immediately.

  • Use your phone’s calendar and reminders.

  • Keep important items in the same place.

  • Make checklists for tasks.

5. Focus on One Thing at a Time

Multitasking makes memory worse for most people. When taking an order, conversation, or instruction, try to give it your full attention.

6. Keep Your Brain Active

Reading, learning new skills, puzzles, and social interaction can help keep your mind engaged.

7. Eat a Balanced Diet

Make sure you’re getting enough protein, fruits, vegetables, and healthy fats. Deficiencies in nutrients such as vitamin B12 can contribute to memory problems.

8. Manage Stress

High stress and anxiety can make it feel like your memory is failing when the main issue is difficulty concentrating.

Since you’re 30, a good question is whether the memory problem has always been part of your schizophrenia or whether it has gotten noticeably worse recently. If it’s getting worse, tell your psychiatrist, especially since you’ve recently started Rexulti. They can help determine whether it’s related to symptoms, medication effects, sleep, or another cause.

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No it is not just that I keep hearing voices too. Voicesnof celebrities, voices of friends , voices of people.wjo bullied me not apologising to me etc

Whyare the voices happening? Is it because of chemical imbalance? Or is it that my mind is creating these voices because I don’t have many friends?

I have been diagnosed with schizo and I am taking rexulti 1 mg but I don’t see any major change I still keep hearing voices

And you are right stress is a big part of my life As we are facing legal battles for my business and after my father death we have a very negative home

Can you please answer these questions?

  1. Why are the voices happening? My psychiatrist says it is chemical imbalance
  2. Will yoga meditation help with this?
  3. Are we all connected through the subconcious mind? And telepathy and though broadcasting is possible? Because I have noticed many time people standing near me telepathically talking to me or am I crazy?
  4. Is there any cure for this?
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Yeah, hearing voices is a classic sign of schizophrenia. I don’t know the exact mechanism of why people hear voices, there are a few theories. Not having many friends is not a cause of voices, plenty of people don’t have a lot of friends and it doesn’t cause them to hear voices, it is just not a cause of schizophrenia or voices. I’ve never heard voices but I know plenty of people who do and their medication doesn’t always stop their voices but it can decrease them and the intensity of them.

How long have you been on rexulti? Another medication may work better on the voices but switching medications does not guarantee that the voices will diminish and the side effects may be worse then rexulti. Stress is generally bad for people with schizophrenia, it can make symptoms worse. Saying schizophrenia is a chemical imbalance is an oversimplification, it involves multiple systems in the brain. A chemical imbalance implies it is caused by one chemical when it is actually a combination of factors.

Yoga has several benefits in schizophrenia but it is used it is as a supportive help to medication and therapy, it probably won’t help with major symptoms like hallucinations and delusions. Yoga can ease stress and help with sleep and help with mood but the effects are modest and not dramatic and it does not replace medication or therapy.

The number 3 on your list is getting into common schizophrenia delusions. No, telepathy and thought broadcasting are not real even though many people believe they are. There has never been any scientific proof that telepathy is real and thought broadcasting is not possible, no one can hear your thoughts and you can’t hear anyone else’s thoughts, take my word for it, I know many people believe they are real, in fact I still get symptoms of thinking people can hear my thoughts or read my mind but I know it’s not real.

You’re not crazy, you have a mental illness that plays tricks on your mind. There is no known cure for schizophrenia and you can go to ChatGPT to see what it says about thinking telepathy and thought broadcasting are real, these symptoms are treatable.

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Ok can I message you? Or email you? I feel you can help me out

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Thank you for this wonderful and helpful response.

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The BIG thing here is that you are aware that you may have these symptoms and are looking for help!. My son used sarcosine (see link on header on this sight) and separately Chinese herbs both seemed to help but he didn’t do them consistently and ended up taking the monthly Invega shot which helped. There is also a three month shot - which could be an option for you if the doctor recommends. Please know that people can live well with sz. You may want to reach out and read about John Nash and Elyn Saks. Both have been very successful with the help of medication. We’re here for you if you need more info. This is the best group I have found for support and information.

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Ok thanks for your input

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You realize that most of my answer I got from ChatGPT, right?

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Still thanks. You made an effort! Now many people do that

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I did not realize that!

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If you think you’re developing schizophrenia, the earlier you are evaluated and treated, the better. If you can find a First Episode/Early Psychosis program - often at a medical hospital- go get checked out. Early treatment is known to have better outcomes.

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It’s unusual for a person to develop schizophrenia so late in life. I would suggest a psychiatrist evaluate your symptoms. Take care of yourself- yoga is great but not going to cure a serious mental disorder. Also good to see a psychologist and also get evaluated and get talk therapy.

I feel it’s more common than people might think. Researchers increasingly think of schizophrenia as a spectrum disorder. This implies there are likely undiagnosed “almost” or “edge” cases in the general population. Given that schizophrenia is established as highly heritable, most families can point to a branch in their family tree as an origin. Likewise, I don’t think it’s a stretch that some caregivers lie in this category-- myself included.

The good news is late onset is associated with better outcomes. The realities of stigma, anosognosia and prodromal withdrawal give powerful incentives to hide and mask symptoms unless coping mechanisms break down. I didn’t seek treatment until I was 26- my father not until his sixties. People who can manage on their own, or quietly seek and follow psychiatric assistance are invisible either because they don’t believe they have a problem, or don’t want to make themselves a problem. The stereotypical “eccentric” or “kook” or “crank” or “conspiracy theorist” types exist for a reason and are often harmless unless their coping mechanisms break down due to stress or other factors.

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Thank you for the information- my son has a serious case of schizophrenia- he is now 48 and was diagnosed at 17. He’s had a tough time- he was stable for a long time after a tragic incident of self harm/ he stopped his medication 4 years ago and it’s just beta nightmare- a year in jail, 10 months in local psychiatric hospital, he has been in state hospital since December- he is not at baseline yet - he’s now blind and in a wheelchair- he probably will go to a nursing home- hopefully he will have another long period of stability-

I hear what your saying but my experience with his schizophrenia is extreme with delusions, psychosis, aggression, depression, mania, self harm and harming others, etc, psychosis in some can be life threatening as it is with my son.

So what can I do?

I just want to.imrpove my memory and be confident

My son depended upon writing things down. He kept a notebook of reminders and would write sticky notes to himself. He used his phone’s calendar and would set alarms to help him wake up and make it places on time.

Yeah, I had memory problems for years after a particularly stressful move. I couldn’t remember appointments or telephone numbers or driving directions and I would be at work and my boss would tell me something to do and I would walk away to do it and completely forget what he told me seconds later. For appointments and things I needed to do I carried a pad of paper and a pen and wrote everything down. Eventually my memory got better but I still write down appointments I need to go to and I make daily to do lists.

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So how did your memory get better? What did you do please tell

I didn’t do anything, it just got better on its own.