Hope your holidays were wonderful.
My last post was of my partner looking and questioning on my activities on the computer be it fan fiction or facebook. Which I find annoying but I have not said anything to him as I don’t want to rock whatever is going on in his mind.
Today’s post is about my partner and shopping. I have noticed this behaviour three weeks ago and today it got to me. Three weeks ago I went to buy a diary for 2015, I had two already, a small handbag one, one for every day which I use for upcoming events. I got another one and he questioned me as to why I got another one.
He was pestering me on why I got it like a child. I told him this diary was for taking notes on bills and dates for when I get paid. It will be my financial diary.
He left it at that after feeling satisfied by my explanation.
Today we went shopping with my mother. For the SALES. I spotted Christmas decorations for cheap. I picked up a box of baubles and he asked why I needed them and then told me before I could explain that I didn’t need it. I told him it was for next Christmas and it will be our first Christmas in our new home. He looked in my basket and saw I had two of the same cd and he asked why I needed two and I said since it is cheap I can have one in my car and one in the house.
He looked at me like I was crazy, threw his hands in the air and told me he didn’t understand my choices in shopping and left.
I felt mortified that everyone was looking at us. By the way he was behaving. My mother said “How can you put up with that? I wouldn’t cope if your father was acting like that.”
He has been taking his tablets but this just seems out of the ordinary. Before he never bothered on what I bought. Now he wants to know what I am doing online and want to know why I am buying items. It is getting frustrating, we have moved in together and paying off a house. I don’t splurge on myself often and since it is Sales I gave myself leeway.
Should I be taking notes of this behaviour and pass it on during the next meeting with the psychiatrist? Anyone else been in this boat?