Could you help me with a question I have?
My son, 35 has scz and is unmedicated, his illness is paranoid based, he lives here on our property in a separate home we built for him over a garage that isn’t attached to our house.
His doctor won’t talk to me at his request, so I can’t get any guidance that would apply to him. My son goes to a doctor because he told me “I need someone to talk to”. People here often encourage parents to keep reaching out to their adult children. My son’s paranoia is pretty focused on his dad and I at this point.
He likes to live his own life in his place best he can. Here’s my question. Since seeing us or hearing from us makes him angry, should we continue to extend invitations to join us for holiday dinners?
Other parents say" keep reaching out" I really hate the idea of him being out there, happy with whatever he is doing at the time, and I text him and possible ruin his day.
Thanks in advance