Continuing the discussion from Caregiver Fact: Do you have any outlets to deal with these emotions? :
Things got so bad the other day, I called in my minister to come over and talk to us. He totally respects our minister and will listen to him before me. Our finances have gotten out of hand because he won’t allow anyone else to handle the finances but himself. Well the car is being repossessed because he has fallen behind. The money is there he gets $3500 per month soc sec and veteran’s disability but has no concept of money. We just caught up on the rent it @ $1230 per month. He constantly buys things just to pawn them for cigarettes. He just pawned two flat screens for $100 per this month. His cigarette addiction is out of control he smokes 3 1/2 packs per day. So you see where the money goes. I am TIRED
I hope I’m not being noisy but is your financial security tied to his income? It doesn’t seem like he is able to handle the responsibility of the finances.