Are you in one now?
I read both of your threads on this subject, and i donât get it?
You dumped him, you broke his heart, and now you are playing the victim, villainizing and blaming his illness? This is coming off as emotionally manipulative to me.
I normally wouldnât say something, but iâm seeing red flags. Schizophrenia is a serious illness and you shouldnât take these things lightly. Recovery is more important than girls wanting to play games.
Yeah Iâm getting married. When youâre both ready, and youâre a good fit, it just always feels right. There wouldnât be any questions left in your head. So he is obviously not right for you, at least not at this point in time.
@cj9556âŚ
Did it feel like this when he proposed??
Iâm trying to hook up this ditty I wrote into a 30 second TV ad of a marriage proposal.
That is adorable! I was caught totally off guard. I screamed OH SH*T! And I snatched the ring from him, then mauled his face.
I bought a ring for my gal. It was burning a hole in my pocketâŚ
So weâre sitting in my old 1993 Chevette and I kept asking Chantal if sheâd like to go out to dinner with me tonight? (I was going to propose)
But she DECLINED dinner!! So I said âF*ck itâ to myself and proposed right there in the car!!
She started crying and said, âWHAT ARE YOU DOING!!â I said, âIâm asking you to marry me!!â
Then she wiped away a tear and said, âOkay. I guessâŚâ
lol! (hardly the stuff of romance novels)
Ahh, true love. It very rarely happens like in the movies.
I would say give him some space for a while and when you have contact again donât try to change him. Look into codependence books and it would explain you all about it. Sometimes we just want to control the other person and that push them away.