Yes I had sz at 18 but I eventually graduated from college and got a good government job and bought a townhouse too and was happily independent. With no stress my symptoms went away. So I eventually decided to get married.
I was doing great until our son was born. We had baby sitters to go to movies when john was 2 years old.
My husband picked up the baby sitter one day and said he was going to pick up our son at daycare while I was at work. He took her shopping and to local walking path by a lake and hugged her. Then he paid her $10 and told her not to tell any one. She must have been totally creeped out and told her parents that called the police.
Eventually I paid $10,000 for a lawyer. I thought it would be a long trial or something. He eventually pled guilty to a 4th degree sex offence. It was in the paper and I think someone read the small article and he lost his job of 15 years.
I had a relapse with all of this even though I had been med free and fine for 10 years.
I eventually became the bread winner and even paid for the house with no help from my husband that decided to mow lawns and try to be a landscaper. He badgered me to buy him a trailer that he said he would pay off but he never does and just racks up credit card bills.
These bills gave me another relapse. I paid them off and said to stop it but he just used a po box. Then he was looking at online women and even when to Ukraine to meet one. Even his family said he was wrong.
I forgave him to try to keep our family together.
Then in November he paid for a woman to fly near our home and he picked her up and took her to dinner. I found the receipts after telling him to clean up all the mail piled up on the table.
I forgive him again but my pdoc says that men like this just continue their behavior.