Anger can be an issue for anyone, and frequently scarry and stressful for everyone around. Is there any chance he could see a therapist to help him with his anger.
Here are some past conversation about this issue that may be helpful to review:
I am the parent of a son 22 with “possible schizophrenia”…He is not on any medication. No hallucinations but some paranoia and delusions and “non-functioning…no school, work, friends”. At times he gets very angry, shows his fists, says “you’re pissing me off” (I just walked into the room) and says some very horrible violent things that he would like to do to me … or sometimes his dad. Last night I was kinda scared. I don’t think he’d do the things he says but he is clearly agitated and in…
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I’m concerned that my brother’s rage is going to get him in trouble. Maybe kicked out of his Section 8 housing, or in trouble with the law, or those helping him will stop assisting him due to fear. He loses his temper almost every day. He says it makes him feel powerful. He’s in a cycle of abuse with my mother. (He’s 58 and our mom is 92). Sometimes he slams the car door on her. Other times he calls us bitches. It’s rage, not just anger. He feels very persecuted. My fear is that he will push the…
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by Dr. William Gardner
“Anger is brought on by triggering events. We each have our own triggers. One of the first steps in anger management is identifying what these triggers are.” -Dr. William Gardner
Emotions are big red flags that something is wrong or a bright flash that something is good. Generally speaking, emotional responses are internal reactions to thoughts.
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Meds help with the anger, but for me it helped to realize where my anger came from.
First, it came from frustration over lack of control. I didn’t ask for the disease, but it was causing me to lose control of my life. And people were telling me they knew better than I did and to do as they said. Then doctors told me to listen to them and take medication. Then even if I took the medication, it made me feel different-- as if I was losing control.
Second, it came from feelings of not being he…
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