I’m sitting at the ER with my wife. She was having delusions earlier. She went out drinking when I got home. Now she is acting fine. She says she wants a divorce and I am just mad. Now she says she wants marriage counseling. I don’t know what to do anymore. I would be so easy to just leave. I don’t know how much more I can take
I have a friend in a similar situation. He questions leaving each time his wife’s bipolar (with delusions) jumps up and wreaks havoc on their lives. Once it cycles back to relatively calm, he is fine again. The best thing for you to do is to work with a therapist yourself to get your thoughts sorted out.