@Alwayshopeful - That book just looks too sad for me to read. idk - I get so frustrated about the food. I offer store bought and food that I make. I’m also trying the gluten free which is somewhat under control.
Going away is going to be interesting (I’m trying not to stress). Do you have anyone that could check on your daughter so you could go away? Maybe try one day at first. What are your concerns about leaving her alone? At this point, I think I’m more concerned he won’t feed the cat. He seems to do ok without seeing me and is happier not to. He no longer has baseball bats at the doors so that is a move forward as well.